Do not get TOO
comfortable with the friendship.
You know what I mean.
Just picture this for a moment, if you let them have you part time
while they play around with others, your ex have the best of both
worlds.
You
are letting your ex manipulate you. You're giving them something to
fall back on. They still have you in their life, just NOT with the
stress of a relationship.
I
know, it doesn't really make sense how evil some things work.
It's
Human Nature To Take For Granted Things And Want What
We
Can't Have.
If
you want your love to arrive to the best decision, you will have to
turn down the comfortable
"friendzone" offer.
Stop
making their lives too cozy and comfortable at your own expense.
This is more important if there is a third party involved
already.
-
Your
ex may want you to know the other person as a "friend" and desire to
share details of their relationship.
-
This
"friendzone" is their way of expressing the "great" remorse for hurting
you or for your consolation.
-
This
"concern" for you may be an expression of the guilt they are feeling or
an attempt to manipulate you to find an easier way out.
I
am telling you now, if you accept it just to be together, hoping
they''ll come into their senses, you are just making it harder and
longer for you
to resolve the issue.
What You Should Do
-
Just
be cool with the friendship.
-
Never
let any emotion or pain show when you are together (You have healed,
right? You can do this).
- If your ex is dating, you SHOULD
date too.
HINT:
What did you feel when you learned that your ex is already
dating? You got this uncomfortable feeling, right?
This
works vice versa believe me.
Here Comes The Fun Part
-
Do
something out of the ordinary. Something that is NOT "YOU".
Something that will surprise your ex to know that you can do.
- Wait,
I'm not asking you to do something really outrageous here so don't get
too wild, okay? (No, bungee jumping with friends is not
totally
outrageous)
Your
new hairstyle, your new fashion sense or even a change in your daily
routines and behavior will keep your ex in their toes and escalate
their interest
in you.
They
will start to get nostalgic of
how
good it was then when you both started out.
Be
around, be a bit unreachable, but not totally unavailable.
This
works. This makes them snap out of the
"in
love" state they have with their current fling or clear the "confusion"
that your relationship is "not working out". Ultimately, if
you
learn how to play it, you will reunite.
WARNING:
When
your ex finally realizes that they want you back... don't jump in
instantly. You don't want
your happiness to be short-lived.
You
wouldn't want to wake up in the "morning-after" and hear your ex say
that
last night was a HUGE mistake.
Avoid "premature"
reconcillation at all
cost.
"Letting Go Is The Only
Way To Find Yourself And The Only Way To Even Have A TRUE Chance At
Reconcillation."
What you just learned is
a strong foundation you can use today to get your ex back. You have now
in your hands a proven and effective strategy in place.
Okay, I know what you're
thinking... "What if it
doesn't come out as planned? What if it doesn't work?
If you are too worried,
don't be.
You will not die without
your ex. The world is not coming to an end. If your
whole life evolves around the two of you, then you need to learn to
focus on yourself now.
What you both had may
have been a very good
thing in your life, but never forget that you will have more
good experiences to come.
You Can Be Happy Alone.
This
is
where you give yourself more time to think and wait until you become
strong enough to do this. However, the more time that
passes-by, the more difficult it can become to save your relationship.
If
you are not yet ready. That's cool. I
strongly urge you to come back when you start to see how
these unconventional techniques can help you recapture
your
lover's heart.
Light At The End of the
Tunnel...
I know you're probably
feeling a bit helpless.
I know how hard it can
be to “keep going”
after so many failures, especially if you are the
ONLY one trying. But I'm here to tell you that if you follow this
blueprint even for just one month, you will see for yourself that you
almost lost a whole lifetime of happiness for giving up.
Three Months From Now...
How Do You See Your Life
3 Months From Now?
Believe it or not, it
depends on what you do – TODAY.
I dare you! Try and
prove me wrong by actually taking chance, and see for
yourself...
This is the exact
blueprint I wish I'd had access to when I needed it most. The
time when
I struggled my way through with blood (literally), sweat,
tears
and desperation.
You owe it to yourself –
Try
It.
I must admit that
although these techniques are effective, there are no clear cut methods
when it comes to extraordinary situations. You may need an experienced
friend to give you some hand-holding.
Walk you through,
someone you can talk
to about
RIGHT TIMING, the FASTEST and SHORTEST PATH to take your
love's heart back...and be happy again.
If you've decided that
your relationship is worth fighting for you will need to formulate a
solid plan. Achieve reconciliation and protect it from
further
break ups.
When
you're ready to
take the steps all the way, I would like to make a shameless
recommendation to you.
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